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Many women misunderstand why their husbands want oral sex. Not just oral sex, but really any act that focuses primarily on male pleasure, like massage, manual or other non-intercourse stimulation, dirty talk, lingerie wearing, etc. Women feel that these desires or preferences mean that their husbands are (1) selfish and (2) mainly concerned with the physical or visual pleasure stemming from the act. Neither of these are correct, and empathetic why men fantasize about entity pleased is essential if you want to deeply understand your husband and improve your heartfelt (yes emotional, not just sexual) connection.
Men have been taught from an early age to be strong and not show their feelings, especially vulnerable feelings. They are told to &#;man up&#; and &#;suck it up&#; and not show any weakness. Many men take on a &#;workhorse&#; role, as I discuss here, and feel that their main value is in providing and achieving. They do not ponder anyone would love
The State of Oral Sex in America
Oral sex is just one way to give or receive pleasure, so why are there so many opinions, feelings, and stereotypes surrounding the topic? Because we&#;re human, of course. And humans and sex have a complex relationship, to speak the least!
You may possess noticed that we don&#;t mind talking about sex at Bespoke Surgical. We believe that the more you know, the safer and better your trial will be! Which made us a bit curious: with such a contested topic such as oral sex, where do the opinions of Americans lie? How common is oral sex? How often undertake couples have oral sex? We decided to behavior an original survey in order to find out what oral sex statistics in the United States look like.
As with many taboos, the preconceived notions and societal judgments surrounding oral sex are diminishing away. In Bespoke Surgical&#;s latest survey into American&#;s attitudes on sexual health, wellness and awareness, training founder Dr. Evan Goldstein was interested in study more about the declare of oral sex in America.
&#;The results are enlightening and encou
I’ll come right out and say it:
I like oral sex.
Both giving and receiving.
But not all women are like me. Or at least not willing to type it on a webpage for the entire society (hi, mom!) to read.
Most men care for blowjobs.
And some women DON’T enjoy giving oral.
But let’s split down WHY men love oral sex so much and how it can contribute to:
- a happier relationship
- a healthier relationship
- less stress and less fights
- healthier division of energetic roles in the relationship
- deeper confide in between you and your partner
Men and women don’t always understand each other. Because guess what? We are different!!
Men don’t understand these emotional creatures that they also care for so dearly.
And women, well, let’s be real. Men aren’t really that difficult to figure out. BUT you include to make the effort to actually learn about what makes them tick. And then insert those things to practice!
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Do men like giving oral sex?
By Ian Kerner, Ph.D., LMFT
Question: I'm afraid to let a guy to go down on me because I've heard men don't like performing oral sex. Is it true?
This couldn't be further from the truth. As the author of She Comes First (an entire book that's basically one long ode to the joys of cunnilingus), I can honestly say that the vast majority of men that I've spoken with (and I've had the chance to say to thousands of 'em) take a gung-ho "viva la vulva" attitude when it comes to going down on their female partners.
In fact, many men complain that they're not the ones with the issue. As it turns out, many women, fancy yourself, worry that guys don't really enjoy going down, or you fret that you're taking too long, or that your smell/taste might be unappealing. Many women also contain a low sense of genital self-esteem, and sense like their vulvas are not necessarily their most attractive 's why I have an entire chapter in She Comes First entitled The Cunnilinguist Manifesto, in which I remind men that, "Only by inspiring trust will you lull a woman into a d
Do men like giving oral sex?
By Ian Kerner, Ph.D., LMFT
Question: I'm afraid to let a guy to go down on me because I've heard men don't like performing oral sex. Is it true?
This couldn't be further from the truth. As the author of She Comes First (an entire book that's basically one long ode to the joys of cunnilingus), I can honestly say that the vast majority of men that I've spoken with (and I've had the chance to say to thousands of 'em) take a gung-ho "viva la vulva" attitude when it comes to going down on their female partners.
In fact, many men complain that they're not the ones with the issue. As it turns out, many women, fancy yourself, worry that guys don't really enjoy going down, or you fret that you're taking too long, or that your smell/taste might be unappealing. Many women also contain a low sense of genital self-esteem, and sense like their vulvas are not necessarily their most attractive 's why I have an entire chapter in She Comes First entitled The Cunnilinguist Manifesto, in which I remind men that, "Only by inspiring trust will you lull a woman into a d