Why men dont like me
Why Do Men Not Discover Me Attractive?
Wow, you are 27 years old and are convinced that men do not find you attractive. If you will allow me to form an educated guess, it is that men do find you attractive! But, you ask an important question, “What am I doing wrong?” You are conscious that you are doing something to discourage men from encounter, dating and becoming intimately committed. What is it that you are doing wrong?
This question is difficult to answer without knowing you. That is the reason why psychotherapy would be a good idea for you. In fact, I want to urge you to enter psychotherapy with a Licensed Clinical Psychologist or Licensed and experienced Clinical Social Worker.
Nevertheless, I will hazard some ideas about the mistakes people often make when they are having difficulty meeting intimate others. Perhaps one or more of these will throw some illumination on your situation.
1. Human beings do a lot of communicating through non verbal means. Facial expression, bodily expressions, arm gestures, tones of voice, smiles or frowns, etc. All of this and more is called “body language
Articles on Marriage and Relationships
by Paul Graves
So you like a guy with deep (in pitch) self-esteem. Sucks to be you. I’m saying that as a dude who used to hate himself. Who still kind of does. I know the crap you deal with. He must drive you nuts.
I was in a association with an angel, let’s call her Mary. Mary was such a pure, beautiful soul. We related. Looking into her eyes filled me with comfort and calmed my fears. Mary loved me so much, and I loved her too. But I hated myself even more. Long story short – I ran away from her love. The treasure I felt unworthy of. I sought validation and distraction in women, alcohol and career moves. And in many other dark ways I won’t mention.
Low self-esteem is easy to describe yet hard to perceive for some. It’s feeling shameful about who you are. Feeling guilty or embarrassed about who you are, grave in your core. You feel &#;different&#;. Damaged or flawed in fundamental, irreversible ways. You don’t adore yourself. Your man may never admit it outright – but he wishes he were someone else.
Alas, there’s no repay policy in life. We’
For some reason, many of my social media algorithms are girls complaining about annoying things guys do that spin them off. Obviously I watch and giggle, sometimes nod my head in agreement. Of course, there are plenty of things women do that provide a guy the ick or build them lose interest. This Reddit thread listed many of those things. Here are some of them:
1."Never wanting to do anything." Me: 'Would you fond of to' Her: 'No, that sounds boring.' Me: 'How about?' Her: 'Nah, I don't want to do that.' Me: 'Ok, what would you like to do?' Her: 'IDK, whatever you wish to do.'"
—u/Beauvoir_R
2."When women take zero initiative."
—u/IronDBZ
3."Assume they understand my intentions or motivations because they 'know how men think' or otherwise claim to be exceedingly perceptive or intuitive. Even if that's true, believing and acting on those things takes away my agency as an individual to express my thoughts and feelings on a given matter, and that really grinds my gears, I must say."
—u/fatbunny23
4."When you're talking to them and they reply, 'OMG that's so funny' while
I Figured Out Why Men Didn’t Like Women Like Me
I knew I fucked up when I woke up sharing a bed, apartment, and life with a guy whose morning routine was to lazily have a sex session and to start watching conspiracy theory videos. At that moment, I had to request myself, why am I stooping so fuckin’ low?
I was new to the city, tired of the dating scene, and peeped my first grey hair under my wig, so I freaked out and rushed into a whirlwind romance. Yes, like a weakling, I took a man who I barely knew at face value after a few dates and some bomb ding-a-ling without properly vetting or testing him for longevity and true compatibility. I went against my instincts to keep it player after our first sexual encounter and stuck around for the love bombing, future faking, and in retrospect, very predictable violence soon to follow.
I may have been dumb, but at the hour, I figured at least I was “high maintenance” with a man who provided for me. He was so addicted to my feminine energy and my coochie that he wanted me to quit my job so I could be more supportive of his endeavors and
I Figured Out Why Men Didn’t Like Women Like Me
I knew I fucked up when I woke up sharing a bed, apartment, and life with a guy whose morning routine was to lazily have a sex session and to start watching conspiracy theory videos. At that moment, I had to request myself, why am I stooping so fuckin’ low?
I was new to the city, tired of the dating scene, and peeped my first grey hair under my wig, so I freaked out and rushed into a whirlwind romance. Yes, like a weakling, I took a man who I barely knew at face value after a few dates and some bomb ding-a-ling without properly vetting or testing him for longevity and true compatibility. I went against my instincts to keep it player after our first sexual encounter and stuck around for the love bombing, future faking, and in retrospect, very predictable violence soon to follow.
I may have been dumb, but at the hour, I figured at least I was “high maintenance” with a man who provided for me. He was so addicted to my feminine energy and my coochie that he wanted me to quit my job so I could be more supportive of his endeavors and