Straight mans first gay experience
Do you remember your first time? Your first experience with another guy? Your first story with another gay guy?
It's that first moment of total pleasure when everything else disappears, and those weird “feelings” suddenly make accomplish sense. Suddenly, everything falls into place: you're not a freak of nature or “different”, simply experiencing the simple joys that you were born to enjoy.
For most gay guys, our first gay experience is usually a moment of revelation and clarity that eventually leads to our own acceptance and the urge to tell the world. For others, it's a complete disaster that we prefer to forget… although one thing's for sure, you will never truly overlook it!
In this post, we asked a few of our friends from around the world to share their first gay exposure with us, whether it was a first-time gay k&#;ss, their first gay love story, or something a bit more spicy(!)… and we've set it all out right here. You'll also want to check out our own love story of how we first met each other.
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People are all too quick to pigeonhole bisexual and pansexual guys. Dating someone femme-presenting? You’re direct. Dating someone on the masculine side? Secretly gay and not ready to admit it. Matchmaking app a non-binary person who presents androgynously? Also gay, probably.
The thing is, bi and pan (short for “pansexual”) guys exist – I know, because I am one. These fundamental misconceptions swirl around mainstream homosexual scenes and vertical spaces alike. I once had a threesome with two gay German guys and afterwards one playfully referred to me as a “baby queer” – erm, no, I’m just as lgbtq+ as you mate; did you not notice when I was sucking your dick?
But let’s declare you’re a guy who’s realised that, like me, you might not be totally straight – but you’ve only ever been in heterosexual relationships. You’re keen to explore, but you’re also anxious about the whole thing. Does that sound like you? In honour of Bisexuality Visibility Week, here are some pointers to support you navigate the terrain. Not you? Maybe still study on, so you can understand our sexuality a small better.
So you&#;v
Falling in love with my straight best friend
Most lgbtq+ people would lament ‘falling’ for a straight guy. At the same age, I know many who have this twisted association to it because it’s the ‘forbidden fruit’. ‘Turning’ a straight boy ‘gay’ is a fantasy that some gay men just have. Before you spring on and judge them, it stems from the innate human desire to simply chase what we know is well beyond our reach. When I was discovering my possess sexuality and coming to terms with it, I fell for my vertical best friend. I reflect it might have been the best thing that happened for our connection because eight years later, he’s the one person I still turn to for anything.
Gay men acquire toxic masculine traits too
I Slept With Multiple Men To Get Over My Ex, Only To Acquire A HIV Scare.
Being ‘gay’ just means we’re sexually attracted to other males, but a whole part of our pre-revelation trial is quite synonymous with most heterosexual males. Most of our parents saw gender as a control relation to sexuality. So yes, I held on to the toxic notion that as a male:
- Showing emotions was a s
Tips for cis men who want to try sex with other cis men – in a defended and respectful way
To begin, I&#;d like to clarify that this article is not necessarily about questioning your sexuality. Everyone should be able to explore their curiosities in a pleasurable and positive way, and it&#;s important to grasp that you can endeavor new things without subscribing to any fixed labels. These tips are for cis men who hope for to try sex with other cis men, in a safe and respectful manner.
Note: ‘cisgender men’ or ‘cis men’ refers to men who were assigned male at birth, based on having a penis and other biological characteristics, and identify as men too.Cis is the reverse of trans. We consider trans men morehere, andhere’s some support and consultation about navigating sex and relationshipsfor trans men and trans masculine people.
1. Be honest from the get-go that you&#;re curious
Whether you want to hook up with someone you&#;re already acquainted with (usually a gym bro, according to most porn), or you&#;ve been involved in a charged emoji swap on Grindr,&n
Falling in love with my straight best friend
Most lgbtq+ people would lament ‘falling’ for a straight guy. At the same age, I know many who have this twisted association to it because it’s the ‘forbidden fruit’. ‘Turning’ a straight boy ‘gay’ is a fantasy that some gay men just have. Before you spring on and judge them, it stems from the innate human desire to simply chase what we know is well beyond our reach. When I was discovering my possess sexuality and coming to terms with it, I fell for my vertical best friend. I reflect it might have been the best thing that happened for our connection because eight years later, he’s the one person I still turn to for anything.
Gay men acquire toxic masculine traits too
I Slept With Multiple Men To Get Over My Ex, Only To Acquire A HIV Scare.
Being ‘gay’ just means we’re sexually attracted to other males, but a whole part of our pre-revelation trial is quite synonymous with most heterosexual males. Most of our parents saw gender as a control relation to sexuality. So yes, I held on to the toxic notion that as a male:
- Showing emotions was a s
Tips for cis men who want to try sex with other cis men – in a defended and respectful way
To begin, I&#;d like to clarify that this article is not necessarily about questioning your sexuality. Everyone should be able to explore their curiosities in a pleasurable and positive way, and it&#;s important to grasp that you can endeavor new things without subscribing to any fixed labels. These tips are for cis men who hope for to try sex with other cis men, in a safe and respectful manner.
Note: ‘cisgender men’ or ‘cis men’ refers to men who were assigned male at birth, based on having a penis and other biological characteristics, and identify as men too.Cis is the reverse of trans. We consider trans men morehere, andhere’s some support and consultation about navigating sex and relationshipsfor trans men and trans masculine people.
1. Be honest from the get-go that you&#;re curious
Whether you want to hook up with someone you&#;re already acquainted with (usually a gym bro, according to most porn), or you&#;ve been involved in a charged emoji swap on Grindr,&n